WRITINGS
How Men Categorize Women—and Why It’s Killing Intimacy
Men are taught early on to categorize women. We do this unconsciously and instinctively, often forming this approach in adolescence. It’s part of the socialization of masculinity — a system that teaches boys to relate [...]
The Seduction of Men’s Recovery Groups
Men’s recovery groups matter. They give men a space to practice honesty, connection, and vulnerability — a place where deep shame and sorrow can finally be spoken aloud. As a therapist on the frontlines of [...]
I Want to Be Like Jesus, But I Don’t Want to Be Abused
“Well, I don’t want to be just like Jesus because he is dead,” my 5-year-old son blurted out one morning on the way to school. His deadpan delivery startled me. My theological brain wanted to [...]
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