Pornography Accountability Software: Yes or No?
It's a question I hear often in the work I do with men recovering from unwanted sexual behaviors: “Is accountability software helpful or effective?” My answer, [...]
The Shape of Grief: Guest Post by Andrew May
I am pleased to feature a guest post today by photographer and podcaster, Andrew May with Allegory & Elm in Asheville, NC. Seldom do you have a [...]
Male Embodiment
I am realizing that men are innately disconnected from their own bodies in a way that is unique to their maleness. (I am clearly not saying all [...]
WAP: A Celebration of Female Sexuality or An Internalization of Male Supremacy?
*trigger warning: Degrading language, graphic sexual abuse described Patriarchy’s influence on popular culture has made objectification and violence against women normative. We are so accustomed [...]
How to Honor Your Mother & Father as You Heal
One question that comes up often during the healing journey is, how do I honor my mother and father? Telling the truth of one's family of origin [...]
When God Played Tennis
God wasn’t that good, but he loved the game. He loved the smell of felt, whacking the ball as hard as he could into the back cobblestone [...]