When Your Daughter Becomes Human
My daughter begged us to go, but my face gave away my dread; she continued to plead until I got over myself and relented. She wanted to [...]
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Most men were never taught how to be men. We were taught how to perform and achieve. How to suppress our emotions. How to dominate and control. [...]
Narrative Somatics: Articulating My Therapeutic Practice
“I have been in therapy for decades. I know this stuff, but I still haven’t changed.” People come into my office after years of talk therapy, most [...]
My Mom is Dying
Honored to be with my mom today, every moment holy. It’s a gift to say goodbye in this way. This will be the 7th day in a [...]
Slow Sex: Why Men Must Learn Presence—and Why Women Deserve More
Healthy sex with your partner is not about practicing some new sex tip you saw on TikTok or a new performance strategy you researched while watching [...]
How Men Categorize Women—and Why It’s Killing Intimacy
Men are taught early on to categorize women. We do this unconsciously and instinctively, often forming this approach in adolescence. It’s part of the socialization of masculinity [...]