Help! My Ex is Screwing Up my Kids
Reader's Ask Andrew, My 20-year marriage ended in a rapid divorce last year. We share three children ages 9, 6, and 3. As a pastor's kid, I [...]
The Log & The Speck: In Light of Contempt
“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your spouse’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you [...]
God Went Swimming
God went swimming in the Atlantic Ocean. She loved the water. It was cold and refreshing, though the salt made Her eyes burn. The water was dark [...]
Hello, Good Penis: The Practice of Blessing Our Genitals
Our genitals are good. They were made for giving and receiving pleasure, new life, and experiencing radical divine joy. Many times our sexual organs get a bad [...]
The Savior & The Goat: A Relational Theory
A common theme in marriage is a relational dynamic I call “the Savior & the Goat”. Typical Saviors and Goats are initially attracted to each other because [...]
Face to Face with a Dying God: Engaging Beauty & Arousal
I was attending a professional training group to improve my therapeutic skills when I was brought face to face with deep, lingering fear and shame around my [...]