Now You See Me, Now You Don’t: Recognizing Our Partner’s Invisible Work
Merely being a living, breathing human in this gloriously fallen world is a task in itself. Yet throwing in living in partnership, both people attempting to authentically [...]
Trigger Happy: Navigating Trauma Triggers in Relationships
At our counseling center, we deal regularly with trauma triggers in relationships. Relationship coach Kyle Benson defines a trigger as “an issue that is sensitive to our [...]
Why We Love Narcissists and What to Do About It
We love a good narcissist. Like flies drawn to the organic matter within feces, we hover close to a narcissist to try to catch some of what [...]
What is a Sexually Healthy Man?
This is an excerpt from my new book, The Sexually Healthy Man. When you review the graph above, what do you feel in your body? Do you [...]
Welcome Home, Grief.
Hello, Grief. Come into my house; make yourself comfortable. I trust you, as you are a relentless yet steady companion. Come to the table. Yes, my friend, [...]
Pornography Accountability Software: Yes or No?
It's a question I hear often in the work I do with men recovering from unwanted sexual behaviors: “Is accountability software helpful or effective?” My answer, [...]