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Sexualizing Sorrow: How Trauma Informs Our Sexual Brokenness

By |March 11th, 2020|Categories: Addiction, Glory, God, Grief, Healing, Loss, Marriage, Masculinity, patriarchy, Pornography, Relationships, Sexism, Sexuality, Shame|Tags: , , , |

For us to break free from our unwanted compulsive behaviors, we must have the courage to delve deeper into our woundedness and explore what lies beneath it. [...]

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If I Were an Abuser, What Church Would I Want to Attend?

By |March 9th, 2020|Categories: Addiction, Church, Domestic Violence, Forgiveness, God, Grief, Healing, Kindness, Marriage, patriarchy, Relationships, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Shame, Violence|Tags: , |

I am proud to feature the work of Dr. Nancy Murphy on my blog today. Dr. Murphy is a professor, Executive director of Northwest Family Life, and [...]

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I Deserve Sex: Addressing Entitlement Over Women’s Bodies

By |February 19th, 2020|Categories: Healing, Marriage, Masculinity, patriarchy, Relationships, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality|

I hear it time and time again: “She won’t give me sex”, “She won’t give me what I deserve”, “What is wrong with my wife?” Even if [...]

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