What is a Sexually Healthy Man?
This is an excerpt from my new book, The Sexually Healthy Man. When you review the graph above, what do you feel in your body? Do you [...]
Welcome Home, Grief.
Hello, Grief. Come into my house; make yourself comfortable. I trust you, as you are a relentless yet steady companion. Come to the table. Yes, my friend, [...]
Pornography Accountability Software: Yes or No?
It's a question I hear often in the work I do with men recovering from unwanted sexual behaviors: “Is accountability software helpful or effective?” My answer, [...]
The Shape of Grief: Guest Post by Andrew May
I am pleased to feature a guest post today by photographer and podcaster, Andrew May with Allegory & Elm in Asheville, NC. Seldom do you have a [...]
Male Embodiment
I am realizing that men are innately disconnected from their own bodies in a way that is unique to their maleness. (I am clearly not saying all [...]
WAP: A Celebration of Female Sexuality or An Internalization of Male Supremacy?
*trigger warning: Degrading language, graphic sexual abuse described Patriarchy’s influence on popular culture has made objectification and violence against women normative. We are so accustomed [...]