What is a Sexually Healthy Man?

By |2020-10-26T17:01:38+00:00October 26th, 2020|Uncategorized|

This is an excerpt from my new book, The Sexually Healthy Man.  When you review the graph above, what do you feel in your body? Do you feel regret, hope, or maybe longing and desire for something new? Where do you find yourself? Do you see yourself more on the [...]

Seeing My Dad’s Body

By |2020-03-03T20:24:37+00:00March 3rd, 2020|Addiction, Death, Fatherlessness, Forgiveness, Glory, Grief, Healing, Shame, Uncategorized|

The hot Clearwater, Florida sun demanded that we turn up the AC in the rental car on our way to the funeral home. As Christy and I drove up to the faded yellowish-white brick building, I felt the familiar tension of grief deep in my body. I knew this feeling, [...]

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Lessons on Ford & Kavanaugh from an Evangelical Sexist

By |2018-10-02T21:46:40+00:00October 2nd, 2018|Uncategorized|

This past week Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh has been accused of sexual assault, resulting in a political firestorm of controversy and contention between abuse advocates who want women’s stories to matter, and senators looking to safeguard their political agenda by securing a conservative Supreme Court justice. The President even [...]

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When Shame is Deeper than Salvation

By |2017-03-22T23:43:08+00:00February 14th, 2017|Uncategorized, Writings|

It is common, particularly for Christians, to confuse humility and self-contempt, believing that avoiding the sin of pride means considering ourselves shameful and dirty. Here I confront the idea that our glory needs to be hidden and demeaned. In fact, maybe true humility and gratitude can only come when we [...]

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