
WRITINGS
Slow Sex: Why Men Must Learn Presence—and Why Women Deserve More
 Healthy sex with your partner is not about practicing some new sex tip you saw on TikTok or a new performance strategy you researched while watching porn. Slow sex is a posture—an embodied humility [...]
How Men Categorize Women—and Why It’s Killing Intimacy
Men are taught early on to categorize women. We do this unconsciously and instinctively, often forming this approach in adolescence. It’s part of the socialization of masculinity — a system that teaches boys to relate [...]
The Seduction of Men’s Recovery Groups
Men’s recovery groups matter. They give men a space to practice honesty, connection, and vulnerability — a place where deep shame and sorrow can finally be spoken aloud. As a therapist on the frontlines of [...]
BOOKS
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