Unmasking the Pastor: A Journey from Hypocrisy to Healing
Greg was a famous pastor, young and charismatic, a popular Christian author, and an influencer in my evangelical circles. Though I didn’t know him personally, I had [...]
A Framework of Healing Masculinity
In the early 80s, Therapist Pia Mellody created a helpful model to help understand trauma and treat the issues that came from it. She called this model [...]
Categories of Vowed Masculinity
Society, church, and family have all taught us messages of what masculinity is supposed to be (blog here) and who we are to become. Out of these [...]
The Messaging of Masculinity
What were the messages you received about being a man growing up? These are some of the common misconceptions about masculinity we were taught as children. These [...]
Bouncing Your Eyes & Avoiding Lust
Sheila Gregoire recently posted this question on her social media, “ A guy is getting out of the Every Man's Battle mentality and truly trying to put [...]
The 5 Senses of Healthy Sexuality
The five senses are how humans perceive and interact with the world. Through pornography use, other unhealthy sexual practices, and the socialization of masculinity, we have become [...]