Writings2020-12-01T21:31:22+00:00

Her Exodus: A Poem of Liberation

By |February 1st, 2025|Categories: Church, Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence, God, Healing, Loss, MensWork, patriarchy, Safe Church, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Shame, Violence|Tags: , , , |

They said, submit, sister, your strength is a sin. Kneel at the altar of his headship, let his voice lead, ignore your intuition. Her body, a temple, [...]

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Unmasking the Pastor: A Journey from Hypocrisy to Healing

By |December 30th, 2024|Categories: Addiction, Church, Domestic Violence, God, Healing, Loss, Marriage, Masculinity, MensWork, patriarchy, Pornography, Relationships, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality, Shame|Tags: , , , |

Greg was a famous pastor, young and charismatic, a popular Christian author, and an influencer in my evangelical circles. Though I didn’t know him personally, I had [...]

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A Framework of Healing Masculinity

By |December 18th, 2024|Categories: Domestic Violence, Fatherlessness, Healing, Masculinity, MensWork, patriarchy, Pornography, Relationships, Self-Contempt, Violence|Tags: |

In the early 80s, Therapist Pia Mellody created a helpful model to help understand trauma and treat the issues that came from it. She called this model [...]

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Bouncing Your Eyes & Avoiding Lust

By |November 3rd, 2024|Categories: Addiction, Domestic Violence, Masculinity, patriarchy, Pornography, Relationships, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality, Shame, Violence|Tags: , , , |

Sheila Gregoire recently posted this question on her social media,  “ A guy is getting out of the Every Man's Battle mentality and truly trying to put [...]

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