Writings2018-01-31T02:21:09+00:00

Hello, Good Penis: The Practice of Blessing Our Genitals

By |September 10th, 2019|Categories: Addiction, Healing, Kindness, Marriage, Masculinity, Pornography, Relationships, Self-Contempt, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality, Shame|

Our genitals are good.  They were made for giving and receiving pleasure, new life, and experiencing radical divine joy.  Many times our sexual organs get a bad [...]

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Face to Face with a Dying God: Engaging Beauty & Arousal

By |August 26th, 2019|Categories: Addiction, Anxiety, Domestic Violence, Healing, Kindness, Loss, Marriage, Masculinity, Pornography, Relationships, Self-Contempt, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality, Shame|

 I was attending a professional training group to improve my therapeutic skills when I was brought face to face with deep, lingering fear and shame around my [...]

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My Child Was Exposed to Pornography: From a Concerned Mother

By |August 19th, 2019|Categories: Death, Fatherlessness, Grief, Healing, Kindness, Marriage, Pornography, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality, Shame|

Below is a note from a concerned mother about her and her child's traumatic experience with pornography. We have chosen to protect the identity of the child [...]

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