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The Minimization of Pornography

By |November 10th, 2022|Categories: Domestic Violence, Healing, Masculinity, patriarchy, Pornography, Relationships, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality, Shame, Uncategorized, Violence, women|Tags: , |

“I have been in sin and need prayer” or “I have a problem with lust” are common confessions within the church context. Those with a bit more [...]

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Practicing Full Consent

By |October 30th, 2022|Categories: Addiction, Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence, Forgiveness, Healing, Marriage, Masculinity, patriarchy, Pornography, Relationships, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality, Violence, women|Tags: |

I remember when I was living fully into my compulsive sexual behaviors of pornography, fantasy, and masturbation, my brain always seeking its next high. Scanning rooms for [...]

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I Caught my Teen Son Using Porn, What Do I Do?

By |October 7th, 2022|Categories: Addiction, Fatherlessness, Healing, Masculinity, Pornography, Reader's Ask, Relationships, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality, Shame, women|Tags: , , |

A common question I get asked weekly is, “What do I do—I caught my teenage son looking at porn?” I intend to write the book, The Sexually [...]

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Dangerous Grace: Having Boundaries Against Spiritual Manipulation

By |July 14th, 2022|Categories: Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence, Healing, Masculinity, patriarchy, Relationships, Self-Contempt, Sexism, Violence, women|

Grace is the foundation of our Christian faith. Jesus giving his sinless life in place of our own is what the good news is all about. But [...]

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No, Sorry, You’re Not a Virgin: Untangling Porn & Purity 

By |May 13th, 2022|Categories: Addiction, Domestic Violence, God, Grief, Healing, Kindness, Masculinity, patriarchy, Pornography, Relationships, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality, Shame, women|Tags: , , |

The purity movement of the 90s created some odd sexual behaviors that we are still seeing play out 30 years later as those adolescents have become married [...]

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