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The Plight of Male Disembodiment 

By |May 26th, 2023|Categories: Domestic Violence, God, Kindness, Masculinity, patriarchy, Relationships, Shame, Violence, women|Tags: , |

I am honored to feature my wife, Dr. Christy Bauman, and her essay below. You can find her work https://christybauman.com/ and www.ChristianCC.org and follow her on Instagram.  [...]

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Marriage, No Matter What!? An Ideology of Idolatry

By |January 13th, 2023|Categories: Addiction, Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence, God, Healing, Kindness, Loss, Marriage, patriarchy, Pornography, Relationships, Sexism, women|Tags: , |

One way to retraumatize and groom a victim of abuse is the promotion of the “marriage, no matter what” ideology which is common for women coming out [...]

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Pearl Divers: A Picture of Equality in Marriage

By |January 9th, 2023|Categories: Healing, Marriage, Relationships, women|Tags: , , |

Have you ever heard the story of how traditional pearl divers dive for pearls? Mark Nepo shares in his book, The Book of Awakening, this powerful metaphor [...]

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Victory From Porn: It’s Not What You Think

By |December 17th, 2022|Categories: Addiction, Church, Marriage, patriarchy, Pornography, Relationships, Sexism, Sexuality, Shame|Tags: , , |

I don’t like that word—victory. It seems to communicate such finality, a destination rather than the bloody journey it takes to relearn how to relate non-pornographicly to [...]

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