How Men Categorize Women—and Why It’s Killing Intimacy

By |2025-11-20T15:17:04+00:00November 20th, 2025|Addiction, Church, Domestic Violence, Healing, Masculinity, MensWork, patriarchy, Pornography, Relationships, Safe Church, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality, women|

Men are taught early on to categorize women. We do this unconsciously and instinctively, often forming this approach in adolescence. It’s part of the socialization of masculinity — a system that teaches boys to relate to women not as full humans but as utility and function, with the mindset, “what [...]

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Sex or Slaughter: When Male Connection is Reduced to Intercourse or Violence

By |2025-09-11T14:11:11+00:00September 11th, 2025|Addiction, Death, Domestic Violence, Healing, Marriage, Masculinity, MensWork, patriarchy, Pornography, Relationships, Safe Church, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality, Shame, Violence, women|

  For many men, intimacy comes in only two flavors: sexual conquest or violent confrontation. We have been socialized, almost from birth, to face another man eye-to-eye only when we’re about to fight—or when we’re competing for dominance. The only time in our society where it is socially acceptable to [...]

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Her Exodus: A Poem of Liberation

By |2025-02-01T02:13:52+00:00February 1st, 2025|Church, Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence, God, Healing, Loss, MensWork, patriarchy, Safe Church, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Shame, Violence|

They said, submit, sister, your strength is a sin. Kneel at the altar of his headship, let his voice lead, ignore your intuition. Her body, a temple, they claimed, but not her own. Every word of hers, a stone cast, while his lies built a throne. You are Jezebel incarnate, [...]

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