Death, Death and more Death: when suffering won’t stop
We had another miscarriage two weeks ago. Our beautiful baby was 14 weeks old. I have battled going in and out of numbness the past couple of [...]
Honest Misogynist Part 1
I have been doing work on my own history of misogyny and the abuse that many women suffer daily under a man's unaddressed brokenness. Here I try [...]
Our Glory & Our Depravity: engaging the good & bad of what makes us most human
Our Glory & Our Depravity engaging the good & bad of what makes us most human By Andrew J. Bauman  I tell my son often, “There [...]
The Differentiated Self: creating healthy relationship
What does it mean to love someone without being emotionally enmeshed? How can we be solid within our own true self without other people's decisions completely shaking [...]
This Man Called Me
I wrote this poem as a way to process my own masculine journey. There was a war inside me fighting for supremacy. A war between my inner [...]
Sexual Addiction, Misogyny, and Donald Trump
Here I reflect on the harm that occurs when restoration is not present, when acts of sexual brokenness are sanctioned by structures of power and, often, complicit [...]