Come Home, Heart
Come home, heart. Though you frighten me, I am ready for you to come out of hiding. I now know you are good, tender, and strong. I [...]
Let Addiction Reign: A Poem to My Father
1 Addiction 2 Addictions 3 Addictions 4 Dad, can you be addicted to anything more? 5 Addictions 6 Addictions 7 Addictions 8 Damn Dad [...]
Bringing Your Body Home: A Porn User’s Guide to Embodiment
After a few years as a therapist, I realized that a strictly narrative-based approach towards counseling limited the depth of the work that I was able to [...]
Sexuality in the Extremes: Shame vs. Shamelessness
“Getting off is getting off, it doesn’t matter how,” he said with a smirk. “I mean, I’m not gay, I just like busting a nut and don’t [...]
Raising Children Who Aren’t Sexist
As I've become aware of the complexities of sexism, I see the world much differently than I did before. I am beginning to look for ways to [...]
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