Bringing Your Body Home: A Porn User’s Guide to Embodiment
After a few years as a therapist, I realized that a strictly narrative-based approach towards counseling limited the depth of the work that I was able to [...]
Sexuality in the Extremes: Shame vs. Shamelessness
“Getting off is getting off, it doesn’t matter how,” he said with a smirk. “I mean, I’m not gay, I just like busting a nut and don’t [...]
Raising Children Who Aren’t Sexist
As I've become aware of the complexities of sexism, I see the world much differently than I did before. I am beginning to look for ways to [...]
Strong Women Insecure Men
In Honor of International Women's Day and all the Fierce Women in my life. I am grieved deeply by how many women attempt to become small; I [...]
Shining a Light into Shame’s Darkness
Proud to have Dr. Jason Kanz as a guest blogger on my website this week. Jason is a neuropsychologist and writer. You can follow his work at [...]
What If My Husband Is Using Porn?
It’s a question many women find themselves asking: What if I find out my husband is using porn? The chances are high that your husband has looked [...]