Don’t Talk to me of God
As I observe the state of our nation, I am increasingly concerned, especially with the state of the faith community at large. Many folks call the U.S. [...]
My Testimony is Better Than Yours
We Christians love a good story. We know that stories are powerful, and sometimes we get caught up in the craving for that power. I've told my [...]
Where I Come From: My Racist Roots
“I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal [...]
The Voice of Sons
We cry out for attachment through our excessive violence, our lack of school attendance, the amount of women we seduce, and few understand why we act out. [...]
A Letter to Your Parents: Reclaiming a Lost Voice
  One exercise I do often with clients is have them begin to tell the truth to their parents. This is not an attempt to blame [...]
Our Words
They anchor us to the ocean floor and we are safe. Our words are wings. We can soar when we wear them We can see down below [...]