Writings2020-12-01T21:31:22+00:00

Dangerous Grace: Having Boundaries Against Spiritual Manipulation

By |July 14th, 2022|Categories: Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence, Healing, Masculinity, patriarchy, Relationships, Self-Contempt, Sexism, Violence, women|

Grace is the foundation of our Christian faith. Jesus giving his sinless life in place of our own is what the good news is all about. But [...]

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No, Sorry, You’re Not a Virgin: Untangling Porn & Purity 

By |May 13th, 2022|Categories: Addiction, Domestic Violence, God, Grief, Healing, Kindness, Masculinity, patriarchy, Pornography, Relationships, Sexism, Sexual Abuse, Sexuality, Shame, women|Tags: , , |

The purity movement of the 90s created some odd sexual behaviors that we are still seeing play out 30 years later as those adolescents have become married [...]

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Abuse is War: Understanding Our Wife in Her Recovery

By |November 17th, 2021|Categories: Addiction, Death, Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence, Glory, Grief, Marriage, Masculinity, patriarchy, Relationships, Sexism, Violence, women|Tags: , , , |

General William Sherman once said, “War is Hell” and I completely agree. I would also say abuse is war, just a different type. The hell that a [...]

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Egalitarianism vs. Complementarianism: What about Submission?

By |November 10th, 2021|Categories: Church, Domestic Violence, God, Healing, Marriage, Masculinity, patriarchy, Relationships, Sexism, women|Tags: , |

Though the words egalitarian and complementarian never appear in the Bible, the ideals espoused in both theologies have resulted in frequent debate among evangelicals (Giles, 2020). The [...]

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