No, Sorry, You’re Not a Virgin: Untangling Porn & Purity
The purity movement of the 90s created some odd sexual behaviors that we are still seeing play out 30 years later as those adolescents have become married [...]
On Modesty: It’s All Her Fault!
Recently a pastor from Utah exposed his view of women and his pornographic mindset with his post on modesty, as he blamed women for his own propensity [...]
A Prayer for the Abused Woman
Dear God, Sustainer of life, redeemer of what is broken. I need you. I need you to be close by, my heart and body are [...]
Abuse is War: Understanding Our Wife in Her Recovery
General William Sherman once said, “War is Hell” and I completely agree. I would also say abuse is war, just a different type. The hell that a [...]
Egalitarianism vs. Complementarianism: What about Submission?
Though the words egalitarian and complementarian never appear in the Bible, the ideals espoused in both theologies have resulted in frequent debate among evangelicals (Giles, 2020). The [...]
Christlike or Pornlike? A Christian Woman’s Role in Marriage
I am proud to be writing this article in partnership with Taylor May, a survivor of emotional and spiritual abuse. She has boldly shared her own story [...]